wisdom

Man does not want to choose. He wants to be chosen. by Nathan Jones

There is no feeling more desperate than being free to choose, and yet without the specific compulsion of being chosen. After all, one does not really choose; one is chosen. This is one way of stating the difference between gods and men. Gods choose; men are chosen. What men lose when they become as free as gods is precisely that sense of being chosen, which encourages them, in their gratitude, to take their choices seriously. Put in another way, this means: Freedom does not exist without responsibility.
— Philip Rieff in The Triumph of the Therapeutic